Ducets depletion

I am currently financially poorer at this moment than I have ever been. I am also more in debt than I ever have been. These are not ideal realities in tandem.
I am looking into food stamps today, cause I won't be able to purchase food til my next pay, so I think supplement is in order.
Between buying the house and its involved up front expenses, then having to move the re-roofing expense up one year, then unexpectedly having to buy a new furnace, plus a couple unexpected (before anticipated wear and tear time) car repairs - we are broke.
My account balance is $0. Truly, which I found out when I tried to pay at the market buying toiletries and tea.
I had no idea we were going to be here, paycheck to paycheck and not quite making it.

So, because it is surprising, and allot - let's look at the major life stress triggers my husband and I have experienced since June, in  1. serious financial stress.

2. death of loved one
3. move
4. new job (company)

All that compounds the financial stress I guess.
Funny thing, I feel pretty fine about it. Our head is just above / at water level, we have a warm dry home as winter comes on, and are making new friends.

New friends! We have just connected with some great folks and have hopes of spending time with them.